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It\u2019s been two years since we lost legendary actress and singer Doris Day\u00a0<\/a>who passed away at the age of 97 after becoming one of the biggest stars during the Golden Age of Hollywood.<\/strong>As well as appearing in almost 30 movies, she released more than 650 songs between 1947 and 1967 and received many awards for her dedication to music and movies including the Presidential Medal of Freedom.<\/strong>The much-loved actress and singer died in 2019 but recently a close friend revealed that she didn\u2019t want a funeral, memorial, or grave marking.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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But why? Let\u2019s find out.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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American actress Doris Day, circa 1965. (Photo by Silver Screen Collection\/Getty Images)There are so many reasons to love Doris Day: he talent, her love for animals, and her humility.In her 50-year career, Doris was well-loved and highly regarded for her film work. She made her name after starring in such movies as\u00a0Pillow Talk, Love Me or Leave Me,\u00a0<\/em>and\u00a0The Man Who Knew Too Much.<\/em>The 97-year-old married four times but only had one child. Terry Mulcher, Day\u2019s son via first husband Al Jorden, died in 2004 of melanoma.As well as achieving fame on the silver screen, Day was also a prominent animal rights activist. She was a very compassionate person who fought for animals without a voice.\"\"<\/div>\n
American actress Doris Day in a fur-trimmed coat, circa 1963. (Photo by Silver Screen Collection\/Getty Images)Doris was also a Grammy-winning singer.Her songs\u00a0Sentimental Journey, Secret Love,\u00a0<\/em>and\u00a0Que Sera Sera\u00a0<\/em>were all inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, while her work with animals culminated in the formation of the Doris Day Animal Foundation.In 2019<\/a>, Doris Day sadly passed away at her home in Carmel Valley, California. She died after contracting pneumonia and her death was announced by her charity, the\u00a0Doris Day Animal Foundation<\/a> which added that as per the star\u2019s request there would be no\u00a0funeral\u00a0services, grave marker, or other public memorials.Instead, she was cremated and had her ashes scattered.According to her close friend and manager Bob Bashara, she didn\u2019t want to discuss the prospect of a funeral because she struggled with death.\"\"<\/div>\n
Doris Day speaking at a press conference at the dog friendly hotel she owns in Carmel, California July 16, 1985 ( Photo by Paul Harris\/Getty Images )And there was a genuine reason for her final wishes.\u201cShe didn\u2019t like death, and she couldn\u2019t be with her animals if they had to be put down. She had difficulty accepting death,\u201d he said in a 2019 interview with\u00a0People.<\/a>\u201cI\u2019d say we need to provide for her dogs [after she died], and she\u2019d say, \u2018I don\u2019t want to think about it\u2019 and she said, \u2018Well, you just take care of them,\u2019\u201d\u00a0recalls Bashara.<\/a>\u201cShe had several when her will was written, and she wanted to be sure they were taken care of. She didn\u2019t like to talk about the dogs dying.\u201dFrom the early 70s Day was an avid campaigner for animal rights denouncing the wearing of fur and setting up the Doris Day Animal Foundation.In 2020 she auctioned more than 1,000 of her possessions raising $3 million for the cause and even helped to set up a Horse Rescue and Adoption Center, which helps abused and neglected horses, in Texas.Day was brought up Catholic and was a practicing Christian Scientist after marrying producer Martin Melcher.Her only child Terrence \u201cTerry\u201d Paul Jorden was born during her first marriage to trombonist Al Jorden who she met when she was 16. Jorden later changed his name to Terrence Paul Melcher when he was adopted by Day\u2019s third husband film producer Martin Melcher.Day \u201cdrifted away\u201d from organized religion after Melcher died in 1968, Bashara told\u00a0People<\/a>, but remained \u201ca spiritual person.\u201d\u201cShe believed in God, and she thought her voice was God-given,\u201d he says. \u201cShe would say, \u2018God gave me a voice, and I just used it.\u2019\u201dDay retired from acting in the early 70s but did return for two TV shows. Then in 1985 she hosted her own television talk show \u201cDoris Day\u2019s Best Friends\u201d, on the Christian Broadcasting Network which ran for a year.Her friend and manager Bashara says he remains unsure as to why Day was reluctant to have a funeral, but explains, \u201cI think it was because she was a very shy person.\u201dHe said Day knew her fans loved her from the letters she received but never understood why so many people loved her.\u201cShe never let her celebrity affect her and who she was, and she was always the little girl from Cincinnati who was extraordinarily talented and went out in the world and did what she loved to do despite herself,\u201d he says.She was cremated and had her ashes scattered.Her estate was donated to charity.\"\"<\/div>\n
Doris Day with Daises (Photo by Herbert Dorfman\/Corbis via Getty Images)We all have to come to terms with death in our own way and everyone\u2019s wishes must be respected.<\/strong>This legendary actress and singer will forever be loved and remembered. Rest in peace Doris Day. Please share.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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